Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Being Transformed Through Tough Times.

Being Transformed by Tough Times is a book I am very glad I have. A book on suffering needs to have a certain quality to it in order for it to minister to someone who is suffering right now. Being Transformed by Tough Times by Steve Reed has this quality. Mr. Reed's attitude toward tough times and his love for fellow pilgrims was produced in him as he went through tough times of his own. What the pain produced in him is the ability to come alongside a sufferer and help them anyway they need it. That might require listening, or talking, or letting them fight against you and loving them anyway. Or it might mean crying. It means gently guiding them to the Scriptures that they need then. Most of all it means being Jesus with skin on to them.

  This is one of those books that will reach you where you are. This book begins and ends with Scripture, and explains that the nourishing meat is in Scripture, these are bites cooked up for you. And it is cooked up well.
Transformed by Tough Times contains a careful look at the "suffering clause," the promise Jesus gave us that we will suffer and be persecuted, that we will all have tough times. This is a promise that has been glossed over in the Western world. It is hard to be a Christian in tough times when "preachers" are preaching that God wants us to be healthy and wealthy all the time. When we don't have a theology of suffering, we end up thinking suffering means we are not in God's will, or suffering means we have hidden sin, or suffering means we just aren't trying hard enough. Or worse, that suffering means God just doesn't care, and none of this pain has any purpose.
Steve Reed takes a look at all of those ideas that can torment a person who is going through tough times, and he offers encouragement that really exists. This encouragement is called the Secret to Outlasting Tough Times, and it isn't really a secret, but a Person. This Person is Real, and Loves us, and wants us to know Him.

    My favorite portions of this book included Steve's own story, the walk through the Hebrews 11 Hall of Fame, the ministry of tears, and the story of a remarkable lady who knows what suffering is like and has comfort and lessons to share. Her chapter was excellent- required reading for all Christians. Through her son's book, this lady is able to sit beside you on the couch and talk about how Jesus carried her through her long trial. She knew the "Secret" to outlasting and being transformed by tough times. Her story is one of the best chapters in this good book!

I am grateful to Christian Speakers Services for sending me this book to review, and I am happy to report my copy is autographed by the author, and so is the giveaway book was sent to me as well.

A book about tough times usually implies that the author has had some personal experiences that connect to that topic. Where did the book start for you? 

In college, I was a kicker and punter at Oklahoma State University under a demanding head coach, Jimmy Johnson. (Football fans might recognize him as the coach for two college national championships in the 80’s and a couple of Super Bowls in the 90’s for the Dallas Cowboys). Just playing for Coach Johnson was tough enough, but my sophomore year, I got my knee bent backwards in a Junior Varsity game in Lincoln, Nebraska. When surgery and rehab efforts didn’t get me back to playing football, I eventually had to hang up the cleats. Looking back now, that experience made me more aware of how other people dealt with adversity and caused me to pay more attention to how I could respond when faced with tough times.

Your book transitions pretty quickly from your football days to life as a church planter and how that actually prompted you to write this book. How did that all happen? 

When football didn’t work out, I found myself drawn to ministry in a great church near the OSU campus. Charlie Baker, the pastor of that church, invited me and other college students to partner with him in creating a weekly worship service for students. In doing that ministry I fell in love with the church and decided to go to seminary and be a pastor myself. After getting married and going through seminary training, we eventually moved to Kansas City to start churches. For nearly 20 years we were involved in the roller coaster rides of starting five different churches in our region. Most days, I absolutely loved it. But in one of those church starts we had a train wreck that knocked me for a loop and out of a church that I loved perhaps more than I loved my wife and family. 

So after that you went on an even deeper quest for figuring out what was happening to you?  

Right. With a new intensity I began to systematically search the scriptures to find some help for my pain. And I collected information and stories from others wiser than me and from many who had suffered greatly and come through with amazing faith and character. 

You write about a day in Costa Rica that changed your life. What happened?  

After the break up from the church, I wound up going to Costa Rica on a mission trip with my parents. My parents, by the way, were missionaries when I was a kid and 30 years prior we had actually lived in Costa Rica. For me, going back was a fun, blast to the past. But more than that, the people there were cathartic for me. I was an emotional mess much of the time. And one day I must have cried with three or four people who needed to know Christ, but who were in pain. God used my pain and my weeping with others to both minister to them and to me. That day I discovered something about God’s ministry of tears and how sometimes He does more through our weaknesses and frailties than He does with our strengths.  

So this is where your international ministry began? 

Yes. While in Costa Rica, a Guatemalan man by the name of Cesar Gonzalez invited me to come to his country and dream about ministries and churches for people in Guatemala who don’t like church. To hear the whole story you’d have to pack a lunch! But let me briefly say that Cesar would have been a mafia hit man if God hadn’t gotten a hold of him! With a little encouragement from some pastor friends in Kansas City, I took him up on his invitation, and for two weeks Cesar and I drove around the country looking at dozens of different situations and groups of people. Little did I know then, that 13 years later we would be working in over 55 locations covering Guatemala, Honduras, and El Salvador. I mention this because I have learned a lot from believers from other cultures and have put much of that into the book. Many of us in North America aren’t aware that both Guatemala and El Salvador have been through recent civil wars. Many people there have shared first hand stories of unimaginable grief and heartache. As I have walked alongside them, my faith has been challenged and I have an increasing desire to not just mindlessly go through my tough times, but to actually think deeply and grow through my tough circumstances. As I’ve done a little bit of that, I think it’s time that I pass some of this on to others who can benefit like I have. 

Where can people find your book?

For now it’s only available from the trunk of my car! Or, more conveniently, it can be ordered from the website www.TransformedbyToughTimes.com. Soon it should become available on Amazon and we hope to have a Kindle version available in the near future as well. By the way, before Christmas we finished taping the audio book and I can’t wait to unveil that in the next couple of months too.  

You also have a companion Bible study available as well right? 

Yes! Thank you for mentioning that. I think I am about as excited about the study guide as I am the book. On the website,www.TransformedbyToughTimes.com is a 24-session small groups Bible study guide that can be downloaded for free. It matches up to chapters in the book and then goes deeper with pertinent Bible stories and information related to the topic. Incidentally, when someone wants me to coach them through their own tough times, this is essentially the material I use. In early tests, we are getting positive feedback from groups going through the book and the Bible study together. Do check it out! 

Find out about more opportunities for a free copy of TRANSFORMED BY TOUGH TIMES, go to https://www.facebook.com/events/338690666247617.
This blog host was given a complimentary copy of this book from the author in exchange for posting the author’s interview and/or book review on this blog. CSS Virtual Book Tours are managed by Christian Speakers Services (http://ChristianSpeakersServices.com).


Steve Reed is the Chief Encouragement Officer and Cross Cultural Catalyst for Daybreak International, a missions organization he founded that is dedicated to planting churches for the marginalized and forgotten peoples of the world. Currently, his two major projects focus on cowboys in Central America, and Kekchi Indians in the jungles of Guatemala. Those who know Steve best speak of his relentless encouragement and undying loyalty to people who face tough times. When not traveling in Central America, Steve comes home to Kansas City. He is married to Nola, and they have three young adult sons, a beloved daughter-in-law, and a grand baby on the way!  


  1. Faith, I can't tell you how much I appreciate and enjoyed your thoughtful and encouraging review of the book. You inspire me to keep getting the message out!
    Steve Reed, author Transformed by Tough Times

    1. Thank you Mr. Reed! Your book's message needs to get out! I will be sending my giveaway copy to a friend soon. Thank you for sending me two signed copies!